Well, far be it from me to give advice on love, but I really do feel that you can't choose whether or not to love someone, (for some horrible/wonderful reason it's involuntary) but you can choose how much or how little a role a person you love plays in your life. That's where things get dicey right? 'Cause love comes in many healthy and unhealthy forms.

I'm really happy there's a "maybe" on your horizon. Do you think he'd be open to meeting your friends? *hint* *hint* It's a good display of true character.