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...when people get into relationships and ditch their friends?

on 2011-03-09 09:36 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] wrascalism.livejournal.com
Indeed. All the well-bred homos do it!

on 2011-03-09 09:39 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] kirbymiles.livejournal.com
Oh its very classy indeed - been there several times.

on 2011-03-09 09:39 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] whobyfire78.livejournal.com
I fucking hate that. A couple of what I thought were my closest friends here locally both met their current beaus about the same time a year ago, and ever since it's like pulling teeth trying to get them to hang out. Either they get lost in boyfriend land or they chat me up online to see if I'm dating someone, and since I'm not they feel bad and insist on telling me not to worry because my prince will come, or some bullshit like that.

on 2011-03-09 10:47 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] vurumai.livejournal.com
It is the way of things. It is the friend's responsibility to be there when things go south.

on 2011-03-09 10:54 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] men-in-full.livejournal.com
No, it's not ... :/

on 2011-03-09 11:28 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] zedsled.livejournal.com
I'm usually not bothered when I don't hear from a friend while they're in that "honeymoon" phase of a new relationship. They're infatuated and want to spend every moment in each other's pants. But when the honeymoon wears off and I realize that I'm dumped, that's what I get pissed - because I know that person is expecting me to be there when everything goes to hell and he needs a shoulder to cry on.

When we met each other 15 years ago, we talked about this very phenomenon. We both were insistent that we wanted to maintain our individual friends and not feel like we had to "ditch" anyone.

One of my very good friends just disappears when he has a new boyfriend. He could disappear for a year or two. But he reappears to the point of being a bit irritating when that relationship disintegrates. It really ticks me off.

on 2011-03-10 12:23 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] heypyro.livejournal.com
I have some friends who are just like that. My best friend notoriously goes MIA for the first 6 months to a year into any new relationship. I can joke with him about it as he's done it enough times to realize he does it.

on 2011-03-10 01:54 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] monster-grrrl.livejournal.com
Yeah, fuck that noise.

no

on 2011-03-12 03:37 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] tkn1114.livejournal.com
just queeny :-.)

MOVE ON! He ain't worth it. You deserve a lot better than a non-paying concubine with no dowery.

on 2011-03-12 02:18 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] dougoros.livejournal.com
There's too many scenarios/ variables to generally judge?

on 2011-03-12 02:27 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] chronicpaint.livejournal.com
Oh, come on. Where's the fun if I can't generally judge???

on 2011-04-08 11:46 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] lusikurd.livejournal.com
Hmmm for some reason only half the post can be seen. I tried reloading but still same.

on 2011-04-14 02:30 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] libohill.livejournal.com
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